You don’t attract the relationship you want by force, you choose who exactly you want and dont entertain anyone else.
When you are a high enough version of yourself, in your own judgement, and you have enough self respect to choose and stay consistent with your decisions, and you also don’t react to any other option regardless of how attractive it might seem, and you also have the certainty to wait until reality meets you half way, and delivers… And it will, every single time because it does not judge, it responds to the observer.
You.
The interaction will be natural and seamless, no chasing or pushing or convincing will ever be necessary.
This decision happens internally first. That kind of internal clarity can also be explored through a private consultation. The guarantee comes from the consistency of your decision. Without having a shadow of a doubt. You must know who you are. You will be in your highest version, and from that natural sovereign state, you will not settle. This is how I work. It doesn’t matter how attractive the other options might seem. True alignment won’t just be physically appealing to your eyes, although, however, should also be that. Interest will be fully congruent with the mind and heart, in full acceptance from both sides. This kind of union will be by far more satisfying than any other superficial shallow encounter you may ever have.